"I have spent many years walking beside people in clinics in communities in silence and in pain. With a back ground in clinical Psychology Theology and through my own personal journey through depression trauma and healing one truth returing to me. Most of the suffering we see in individuals and families and in society at largeis not born in adulthood-it begins far earlier. It bigins at conception in the womb in the energy between the parents.. ans especially in the early experience of the Child. In this work I have encountered people struggling with addiction gender confusion depression suididal ideation and deep emotional emptiness. As I listened more deeply I bgan to see patterns. Many of which science is only beginning to explain. The stat of mind and heart of the parents during sex and conception affects more than just the child`s physical body. It influences the emotional and energetic seed of new life. When sex is devoid of connection when one partner(especially the woman) is emotionally or physically unsatisfied. It can result in resentment rejection or psychological pain that gets passed into the child as subtle emotional imprints. These imprints may latter manifest as identity imbalence or trouble forming safe attachments-not necessary sexual orientation but core emotional patters that shape a person`sview of self and relationships. At the same time we must clear: Sexual orientation- whether hetrosexuual hoomosexual or othetwise is an un natural variatin of human identity caused by the mingling of energies that in the important chemical combination within. There are lot of examples and scentific proofs that it is caused by sexual trauma.. Parental failure.. Or material resentment. However.. Inner conflict about identity or shame may be intensified by emotional wounds passed down from unresolved parental dynamics. So this book is not about judgement. It is aout understading..."